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Relationship Maths

Situation: Someone is not behaving according to society, like drinking excessively, consuming drugs, tobacco, etc. 

Solution: 
We must not generate the thought that they are abnormal. They are perfectly OK. Nobody is abnormal in this world. They are just playing their role in this world drama at this point in time. The clock ticks away, and every actor plays their role in the drama with accurate precision every 5000 years. Each second in this world drama is already written and cannot be changed. Every actor plays their role in exactly the same way they played before. With this knowledge, it becomes easier to accept others. Then solutions come easily.

Now, coming back to the given situation, the person just needs help with their daily tasks. They need assistance managing their workload. They cannot handle work pressure. There is something that is taking up most of their time: they are either spending time with the wrong group of people or engaging with inappropriate content on social media. To regain control, they should consider setting boundaries with their social interactions. Their social media needs to be checked. Focusing on positive influences and prioritizing tasks can alleviate stress and create a more balanced routine.

Their thoughts need to realign with the present. To do that, help them engage in activities in the house, like cooking, cleaning, etc. Ask them to create a timetable and stick to it for at least a week to wash off their wrong thoughts, making them content and happy. If they are not willing to do household chores, consider introducing them to new hobbies that can be done indoors, such as painting, writing, or even learning a musical instrument. Ask them to visit the nearby temple. Cook their favorite dishes, which their mother used to cook. Slowly, they will start listening to you and encouraging them to explore these creative outlets can provide a positive distraction and help foster a sense of accomplishment and joy.

Keep showering them with lots of love and blessings. If they misbehave sometimes, then please do not feel bad. This time is your testing time. You also need to engage in positive activities to uplift your mood, like listening to your favorite kind of music, watching positive content on TV, talking to your loved ones, and sharing with them. You need to take care of yourself more than anyone. Take help from your housemaid for household chores. Just make sure you are always in your best mood around them. Blaming them for their behavior will reinforce their wrong habits and might upset you. So, always talk positively about them.

Remember, this is just a phase in their lives. If you want to write a different story, keep visualizing them in that phase. Generate uplifting thoughts for yourself and them. The power of visualization has miraculous results. Practice Rajyoga meditation(link below), where you will learn to heal the soul's subconscious mind through God's peaceful and loving vibrations. Shower them with the rays of peace and love during the golden time of the day, which is called Amritvela. During Amritvela, the soul is in its subconscious state. Their conscious state of mind is sleeping. They are in their subconscious state. Whatever thoughts we generate reach the subconscious mind and create magic. Their strong sanskaras start melting away. This is called the service of the mind. They start listening to you more and engage with you. Then, whatever you say, they pay more attention.

Remember, to write a different story for them, you must be willing to transform yourself. The world changes when you change. So, practice whatever you say to them yourself first. This will make it easier for them to get into practice. If you ask them to walk in the park early in the morning, start with yourself. Engage in a group and start your day. Slowly, they will get motivated to join you. If they like some other activity, then have a big heart and join them. Remember, you must be a giver in this relationship to change them. You must learn to value their choices above your own because they are in their healing phase. They need your help. You must be in a state of mind to help them. You must learn to charge them with your vibrations. To do that, keep your spirits high and think positively. Miracles are around the corner, waiting for you to wave your magic wand of positivity.

Prepare their food with love and put lots of positive thoughts and blessings in their food. This creates real magic.

You can practice Rajyoga meditation through commentary after enrolling in a 7-day course at the nearest Brahma Kumaris centre.
Rajyoga meditation link: 
https://www.brahmakumaris.com/soul-sustenance/how-to-meditate-a-basic-meditation-commentary-part-1/

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