How to help someone?

Situation: Someone asks you for advice on a topic. They behave like they know it all. You wonder why they sought your advice in the first place if they believe they know everything.

Solution: When someone asks you for advice, give it wholeheartedly. 

So, let them speak too. Let them speak their whole heart out. Listen to them with love, patience, and respect. After delivering a piece of advice, pause. They take the time to collect all their thoughts and speak. They have their solution. You have to lead them to the solution. Thus,


They will be motivated to take gradual steps toward their destiny. They will remember the conversation. 

Give them little bits of advice so that they can implement them in their practical life. In the end, they should get to know something new, which would refresh their minds. All souls ask for solutions to refresh their minds; the solution is already with them. If they are talking to you, it just means that they like your energies and would like to take your blessings from you on their journey. Appreciate them for the solution they have thought of for them. People tend to remember the solutions provided by those who are affectionate and supportive. Maintaining contact with them as they progress on their journey is important. Ask them what steps they have taken since your conversation happened. In this way, they will feel responsible for their goal. Continue to provide guidance to them in a step-by-step manner.  

Accept their solution with respect. 

Bless them with a lot of positivity. 

They might find your solution a little difficult to understand. Continue to shower them with positive wishes and maintain your uplifting spirit. You are doing an impressive job. Engage in positive self-talk to boost your confidence. Since you are sharing your energies with them, your mindset should be full of positivity. They must feel their very best talking to you. 

When you have finished the conversation, just let go of everything. Om shanti






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